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I must say this has been the biggest challenge in my entire life. This gives me time to calm down and think about how I want to say something.
Although I do love my husband dearly, I am finding myself slipping into feelings of resentment quite often. Also, you need to give logistical reasons for things, at least I do.
This stems from their problems with social skills and communication. An AS man may have a pet (often a dog) that he becomes quite attached to.
The pet is a friend that does not place demands on the man and accepts him as he is. AS males may seem set in their ways and can appear to be selfish or insensitive.
If you are in a relationship with a man on the autism spectrum, you have probably noticed many of the traits listed below.
Notice I said “traits” – not “character flaws.” We’re talking about symptoms that come with having the disorder.
Many of the people at the adult Asperger's support groups I go to comment that their diagnosis made their marriages to their NT partner much happier. It points out that both people in the relationship need to work at understanding the other. Or times when we both felt a little unloved or uncared for because we didn't recognise the way the other was expressing their love.What advice would you have for a couple that is experiencing marital problems due to the fact that one partner’s brain is wired differently? "I need you to take out the trash because I'm cooking dinner." "It upsets me when you ignore me for video games because it makes me feel like you'd rather play games than be married to me. There's a quiz you can both take that will tell you your love language, which was crazy eye-opening for me and my husband.• Anonymous said... Read everything about it, have someone to talk to, have your OWN free time and try to be as rational as you can when you talk to him which you have to do when you know he is in the "listening mode". One thing that helps me is to write my thoughts and feelings down, then have him read them.I'll assume that your husband has the normal high IQ common amongst folks with AS, and if so you can use that to your benefit to help him learn how to relate to you and "behave" in a more neuro-typical way.No one with AS wants conflict or strife, as it only serves to worsen the anxiety and depression that is so common in this disorder.