On dating the cool girl
They say that to play it cool you must not discuss your burgeoning relationship with the other person because every time you bring up that conversation about where things are going, you lose power.
As a play cool tactic this sounds like it makes sense, however it makes more sense to know what you want out of any relationship no matter who the person is.
Rather than end conversations early, a more useful tactic is to aim to be the one who tends to end dates and phone calls first as this will show the other person that you are firmly in control of yourself and are not going to rush the relationship.
It’s quite common in the dating arena for men to play it cool and women to play hard to get.Rather than trying to keep his interest by playing hard to get, ditch this waiting game and cultivate a genuinely varied and busy life.People who keep themselves occupied with hobbies, classes and activities sound more cool, interesting and intriguing than those who vaguely claim to be ‘super busy’ all the time.While it is necessary that they know that you’re interested in them, it is also necessary that whomever you’re dating knows that your life is not on hold for them.You shouldn’t bother with cryptic clues about what you’re doing or offer small nuggets of information without details, all you need to do is maintain your own life and show the person you’re dating that you like him or her but your world doesn’t revolve around them.